Welcome! It is so great that you found your way here. My name is Nat, I use they/ them pronouns. I am a descendant of the first people of the Caribbean, Boricua-Taino and Sicilian from the diaspora. I am queer 2spirit trans nonbinary, audhd.
Originally born and raised on the East Coast (NYC & NJ). I’m a single parent of three wildly inspiring unschooled children who are all in college now. Parenting is the most important choice, responsibility, and work I have ever experienced in my life. One I’m most proud of. The learning, growth and relationship is constant.
While parenting isn’t all of who I am, it is the center of my life experience. It’s brought strong lessons, tools, and skills which has offered me many opportunities for reparenting self and for healing. The way I know my children at every developmental stage and age I’ve relearned myself and get to hold my own hand. I am the parent I wish I had. I want this for everyone.
In my work life, I am a container builder. I get to meet clients in the moments when at one point in time they had to meet those moment alone. (Do-overs can be powerful.) It’s an honor when clients allow me to meet them.
I am a somatic co-liberator of body’s unexpressed communication. I track and offer/guide opportunities of movement, attention, and sound.
I am a body tender. I offer non-sexual SE touch and SE touch when the body is starved, needing nourishment, grounding and utterly exhausted.
I am bridge maker for alternative relationship dynamics -I’ve been polyamorous for over 20 years. I’ve supported many people and held circles dismantling colonial settler structures and ways to be in right relationship with self and one another.
I’m a birth keeper, co-conspirator of reparenting ourselves using parts work(IFS), as well as supporting folks on their parenting journey. This is where my heart is.
I am passionate about the deepening return of our embodiment and belonging, especially at the intersections of Queer Trans Neurodiverse Polyam Kinky and BIPOC identity.
My passion is cultivating deep intimate relationships within our home (body), with our longing, desire, pleasure, and joy. Our bodies are brilliant and wise. Our relationships, connections, loverships, collectiveships sound-touch-movement-intimacy-ritual-ceremony are all technologies of survival.
Our relational and developmental traumas are shaped by the upbringing and environments we experience. This foundation is deeply influenced by the Native lands we occupy, the intergenerational trauma we inherit, and the continuous marginalization we face due to our intersecting identities.
In all of our sessions, I bring my whole self with compassion, play, laughter, and curiosity. The work I do is my calling and I’m excited to work with you.
My Approach
“Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves…” Rilke
Building trust requires a slow burn. Consent sits at the center of it all as we explore and learn how to embody autonomy and agency. How we locate and identify sensations, emotions, yeses and no’s and say to them out loud. We are learning together how to understand what dysregulation looks like for you.
Trauma has a way of erupting. Part of this practice is moving at a pace your nervous system can handle. It’s called ‘titrating’ — little sips at a time. I support you/your body as a whole. Together and collaboratively we begin unearthing settler systems, patterns learned, gained and born with, and learn tools that work for you.
We need love and rest and one another so we can continue to meet the world with full range. I support the rewiring of how these experiences perpetuate the patterns of self isolation/severing, and disembodiment with ourselves and external connections/relationships.
I support the reclamation of your inner knowing, your body, and your trust in you. Little by little, at the pace of Trust. Everything is an invitation. This is your space and time. I meet you exactly where you are.
"We heal in community, in relationship - rarely alone. That healing is not separate from resistance - it is a form of it."
Care - Erotics of Liberation