Welcome! It is so great that you found your way here. My name is Nat, I use they/ them pronouns. I am a descendant of the first people of the Caribbean, Boricua-Taino. I am also of the Sicilian and queer 2spirit trans nonbinary, audhd diaspora.
Originally born and raised on the East Coast. I’m a single parent of three wildly inspiring unschooled children. Who are all in college now. It is the most important responsibility and work I have ever done. I am a forever student and maker of plant medicine. I love to sing and dance in my kitchen. Make art on my living room floor. Cuddle with my sweet tuxedo buddy, Fig. Laugh deep belly laughs with my children and beloveds. I am a sacred intimate at heart.
I come from seven generations of my soul ancestors at my back. It is my calling to share this medicine as part of the collective, and for those after me in the powerful return to our sovereign body. The work I offer is work that has supported me for over two decades. Allowing me to continuously learn the knowing — the underbelly of my internal landscape. My journey is ever evolving. It as holy and sacred as the bodies we have been gifted.
In my work life I am a container builder of movement and sound, somatic co-liberator of trauma, body tender, a bridge maker for alternative relationship dynamics, birth keeper, co-conspirator of reparenting our parts as well as supporting folks on their parenting journey. I am passionate about the deepening return to our embodied knowing and belonging especially at the intersections of Queer Trans Neurodiverse Polyam Kinky and BIPOC identity.
My passion is cultivating deep intimate relationships within our home (body), our longing, desire, pleasure, and joy. Our bodies are brilliant, and, our relationships, connections, loverships, sound-touch-movement-intimacy-ritual-ceremony are technologies of survival.
Our relational and developmental traumas are shaped by the upbringing and environments we experience. This foundation is deeply influenced by the Native lands we occupy, the intergenerational trauma we inherit, and the continuous marginalization we face due to our intersecting identities.
In all of healings, I bring my whole self into each session with compassion, laughter, and a strong container. To me, it is very rewarding to do my work when clients come into sessions open and curious and ready to walk through the doors that lead them into their inner rooms.
My Approach
Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves…” Rilke
Building trust requires a slow burn. Consent sits at the center of it all as we explore and learn how to embody autonomy and agency. How we locate and identify sensations, emotions, yeses and no’s and say to them out loud. We are learning together how to understand what dysregulation looks like for you.
Trauma has a way of erupting. Part of this practice is moving at a pace your nervous system can handle. It’s called ‘titrating’ — little sips at a time. I support you/your body as a whole. Together and collaboratively we begin unearthing settler systems, patterns learned, gained and born with, and learn tools that work for you.
We need love and rest and one another so we can continue to meet the world with full range. I support the rewiring of how these experiences perpetuate the patterns of self isolation/severing, and disembodiment with ourselves and external connections/relationships.
I support the reclamation of your inner knowing, your body, and your trust in you. Little by little, at the pace of Trust. Everything is an invitation. This is your space and time. I meet you exactly where you are.
"We heal in community, in relationship - rarely alone. That healing is not separate from resistance - it is a form of it."
Care - Erotics of Liberation